And finally she walked away from it all. From the drama/kaos.
She realized that her gems were far more valuable than what
was being offered for them. Her time, effort, dedication & faithfulness
was traded for sorrow, betrayal and potential resentment.
It was time to move on...to let go-
No anger, No resentment, No sadness,No Bitterness, No Baggage
Just FREEDOM
It was time to prepare to be ready for better days.
Filled with joy, smiles, laughter and appreciation not just her gems, but who she was!
It was time to be LOVED!! not by another man but herself.

In the end...
The one whom he betrayed her for, betrayed him by having a child by another man.
He was left alone...
and she was FREE-

Q:So is this how the story ends?.....
A: Ummm...as for this chapter? Yes (She smiles)

It's one of the most frustrating things to see 'a pink elephant' in the room and you are the only one to see it. The only one next to a few unblind who see the same as you. When you try to notify everyone of the obvious you hear one of three things. 'You've misjudged', 'It can look like something and have all the symptoms but be something else', 'Don't worry about it, live'.

Aggrevation seeps over my mind like clouds over a sun. Bewildered how people rather live indenial and around the very thing that separates everything around it, than address what is stand right in the middle of the room. SMH I am at a lost for words at how people can watch the mess and watch it unfold and not address the issue

At last who would have ever thought the guy would end up with the woman who left him...One of the hardest things to witness is the one you have invested time,energy,effort,money and your love end your relationship to be with their ex. Insult to injury they are working on being with their ex again on the low. Little do they know you know. Facing the reality that you were soo easy to move on from despite wedding/future plans, family meetings,countless love making sessions and the constant verbal repeat of 'I love you'. Is beyond difficult sometimes unbearable. You start to ask yourself questions like was it ever real or deep for you at all? While they move forward to the next chapter of their life, you are stuck replaying the memories that will never overflow back into the bucket of your reality. Endless tears, sucken shoulders, sad facial expressions repress your soul into oblivion.

Now here comes the worse part of all the stage of acceptance. Accepting that your ex doesn't want you they want to be with someone else. One that does not compete or compare. SMH

Have you ever experienced this? What did you do to move forward?